Linux ate my RAM

https://archive.ph/WmJHf

This is actually wrong. For some reason (probably because of the way it's implemented internally) Linux includes shared memory allocations in the "cached" figure. If you calculate the amount of free memory using "free -m" in the way this web page advises, you'll think that memory is free when it really isn't - unlike true cache, shared memory cannot be discarded when the space is needed for something else. I've actually had buggy desktop applications use several gigabytes of RAM…

This is misleading, as the kernel will often swap out processes rather than shrink the disk cache. Its tendency to do this is controlled by the vm.swappiness parameter, which by default heavily favors swapping: http://kerneltrap.org/node/3000 Decreasing this value will favor reducing the cache size and will tend to increase responsiveness. You can set it in the /etc/sysctl.conf file. Low values (≤ 5) are especially good for SSDs where you want to minimize swap usage.

I've tried to educate Oracle DBAs on why top is wrong and their memory really isn't being used. It's painful and they often refuse to believe that I know what I'm talking about, and that they should use the free -m command to see what memory is actually available for use. Is there any particular reason why Oracle DBAs are less likely to believe this? Perhaps it's because most of them grew up in legacy UNIX environments rather than Linux.