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How Inuit parents teach kids to control their anger

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submissions
4
submitters
4
observed span
2019–2024
peak thread · 251 comments
611 pts
latest 20+ return · 2024-02-04
149 pts

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2007–2026

One slot for every year since HN launched. Height is that year's peak points; orange marks a 100+ point or 50+ comment breakout. Select a bar to open its strongest thread.

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An excellent read, but my only doubt is whether this is effective because all your peers have been raised this way. Ie - If someone raises his/her child like this in our western society it might be conflicting for the child to learn how to behave like this at home, and then spend the majority of their time at school where other children behave completely differently. I certainly recall being raised to never answer back to your adults. And then…

kentosi·611-point thread·

The Briggs book referenced in the article is a really interesting read. I tracked down a copy after several articles like this one appeared shortly after her death. I assumed that the book primarily focused on child-rearing, but while that aspect of their culture is certainly an aspect of the book, her study of the concept of "ihuma" and how it applies to interactions between her host family and other adults in the same band were even more interesting to…

A lot of this seems alien to me but I've also suffered from lifelong anger issues (perhaps also due to some corporal punishment I experienced) so it probably tracks... so I'm going to try these. I am especially sensitive to being struck physically. When my 2.6 year old son hits me, for example (the other night he literally tried to grab my eyeball out, out of the blue, fingernails and all), I must immediately walk away and let his mother…

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Breakout years
3

100+ points or 50+ comments

Total points
943

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Total comments
541

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Every submission

DateTitle as submittedByPointsComments
2019-03-14Inuit parents teach kids to control their angergpvos60
2019-03-15How Inuit parents teach kids to control their angerFirst breakout · Best threadn_t611251
2020-07-23How Inuit parents teach kids to control their anger (2019)kevinconaway177134
2024-02-04How Inuit Parents Teach Kids To Control Their Anger (2019)Latest 20+ point returntoomuchtodo149156